I only joined here last year, so I didn't know you very well at the time. Anyway, none of that stuff was meant as criticism, it was mainly advice about what you shouldn't be doing on the forum, which was taken the wrong way a couple of times and it all got blown out of proportion.
The time that Aaron and I said we were busy, the response from you seemed fairly hostile, which is what flared everything up. You probably didn't mean it like that, reading text can easily be picked up wrong, because it doesn't have the expression that talking in person has.
Basically, people are only trying to help in such cases, they're not trying to pick a fight with you. If another case arises that bothers you, try not to blow a fuse and/or jump to conclusion right away, try to ask the other person what they meant if you get confused, even if you have to do it via PM.
