Yeah that's what bothers me. There was a point where my mother (There's been a lot of changing opinions and ideas over the past time. I think I've switched my final decision three or four times before being sure of which one I want) wanted to go back and I was fully against it but I understood her situation as well as my father whom didn't really want to stay and told them that I agreed to go despite actually wanting to. But the situation is pretty much the opposite now, only that over time I've come to realise that their reasons were actually very valid points and now they just want to stay for some family. Of course I want them to be happy too but I find it hard to equally consider each of us when they are just fine and OK with basically putting my life on hold until August of next year and to pass the time I can attend a school in which they want to put me on a very high level that I'm never gonna be able to handle seeing as I can't even write in my own language anymore.Master wrote:Hm, it seems they're not really considering you and are putting themselves first, while I can appreciate that, they're potentially ruining your life as a result of said selfishness, and considering that you've got much more to live through then they have, it's pitiful that they aren't considering your education as a very important factor.
The difference really is that I and my brother (Even though he's moving so it doesn't matter for him) are the only ones trying to think for the family as a whole. In return I get told that it's not such a bad thing because "The food is better here".
Nothing is serious just yet but I don't know if this'll end well.
