Fifo wrote: Wed Feb 27, 2019 7:42 pm
– I’m really tired of others taking advantage of my knowledge just so that I can help them out with their boring shit.
– I hate wasting my time on others. I’d rather focus on my things.
– I’m giving away too much while I get nothing in return. It’s not fair!
– I’ve had enough of being treated this way.
– Countless things are piling up on my to-do list that I can never complete because others keep pestering me to help them out.
– It pisses me off.
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+ been at a restaurant today
Well this answers a long-time question I had about you, regarding a few things.
First off, you've made it
very clear over the years on how you primarily focus on your own interests, yet scoff at anyone else's interests. Much like how you've never had any issues poking fun at other people while you can't stand even the tiniest and most innocent joke directed at you.
Granted, I'm in the same boat when it comes to having countless of things piling on my to-do list, I too have far too many interests and hobbies. Though not being able to complete them all is just the way of life. I don't mind helping others out, except for those who absolutely refuse to help themselves.
However, I must say that I'm very disappointed in your attitude. This is part of the reason why I never cared to accept you via instant messengers, and the above simply re-establishes that reason. Like the time you were more than happy to talk about your interests, I thought it was great, but anytime I've mentioned anything about mine you practically couldn't care less.
This selfish, self-centered, know-it-all, inconsiderate type of attitude is something I (and many others) simply can't stand because it's incredibly rude towards others. You think
your wasting time on others? Well I and many others must have been wasting a lot of time on you for the countless of times we've tried to help you or make an actual attempt to share interests/support one another in time of needs.
You keep whining about publicly shaming people for being 'selfish' when they unfriend/unfollow you on social media, like come on, that's life, people move on with their interests.
This is no different than some of the friends I've got, especially one who thinks he's right and no one else is, even with solid reasoning given to him. When you counter what he says with things he's done he tries making up an excuse and he still thinks he's right and doesn't change his mind for anything. Same friend did that when buying a computer. Complained that I was trying to talk him into buying something other than a "cool" computer he found... well guess what? The motherboard ended up dying out because of how cheaply made everything was from that said company.
Don't even
get me started on Moonlightelf, who I had to cut all communication with because of her condescending attitudes towards me just because of my ADHD and my character Reese wasn't the type to do what she kept wanting her questions answered for. Now she was definitely
the worst person I've ever had to deal with.
Which I guess I have to admit, at least you're not as bad as she is, and I am very thankful for that. Though the point is... try to be a bit more tactful towards others and a little more lax in how you take to others. You don't have to like what they do, but don't make it one-sided.
You're a sharp kid, and have great attention for detail. I still believe you can do many great things, but just with the need to work on how you treat other.
I suppose my rant is a bit of a build up from seeing so many people behaving like this, and no one is pointing it out. The problem sometimes may simply be someone doesn't realize what they are doing, or some just don't care. Never know until you try to help others.
Plus some people needs to be called out on, we can all be civil in society if we simply just respect each other and be a bit more open minded.
