Pluses (+) and minuses (−) of this day

CHRdutch · Post by **CHRdutch** » Sun May 03, 2015 9:22 pm

Imco wrote: + I bet no-one can top that!

Thebananacrafter! · Post by **Thebananacrafter!** » Sun May 03, 2015 9:24 pm

+ I know how to properly make a egg salad sandwich!

Master · Post by **Master** » Mon May 04, 2015 1:21 am

+ May Day Bank Holiday
- Rather than being sensible about sleep, I'm up at 1.
- ONE WEEK REMAINS
- I was supposed to work on and finish off a report over the course of the extended weekend, but, I've spent the first two days doing nothing, not very clever.
+ I should still manage ok, I just don't like constricting myself like so

Bradandez · Post by **Bradandez** » Mon May 04, 2015 8:39 am

(-) False alarm. Crush may have said what she said just to lessen the blow to not hurt my feeling.
(-) Feels awful now. I had a feeling about this.
(+) Work tomorrow and paycheck coming this week for first weekend I worked in months.
(-) Splatoon Amiibo are still out of stock. Why must the world be so harsh on ol' Brad...

OCG · Post by **OCG** » Mon May 04, 2015 8:58 am

Bradandez wrote:(-) False alarm. Crush may have said what she said just to lessen the blow to not hurt my feeling.

Now this is just wrong in every single way. She shouldn't have first said yes and then no. But it is her loss anyways.
I think you should stop wasting time with her and look for someone else. She is not worth it. At least you still have your pride and if she changes her mind later and decides to go with you, you should then say no just to show that nobody can hurt you just like that.

Jewish Candy · Post by **Jewish Candy** » Mon May 04, 2015 9:01 am

Awwwh, Brad...

Yes, the healthy thing to do is move on. It can be hard to end romantic feelings, but a one-sided relationship is no relationship at all. I'm so sorry it happened the way it did, that's painful.

- They're here
+ I've fainted and I'm going off to see my nan

Adsolution · Post by **Adsolution** » Mon May 04, 2015 9:28 am

OldClassicGamer wrote:Now this is just wrong in every single way. She shouldn't have first said yes and then no. But it is her loss anyways.
I think you should stop wasting time with her and look for someone else. She is not worth it. At least you still have your pride and if she changes her mind later and decides to go with you, you should then say no just to show that nobody can hurt you just like that.

Maybe she was nervous or unsure herself and didn't mean to hurt Brad at all, you don't know. You can't jump to conclusions about someone's character over something so incredibly vague.

Fifo · Post by **Fifo** » Mon May 04, 2015 9:36 am

Master wrote:- ONE WEEK REMAINS

GOOD LUCK

+ No school
– I am sick

Jewish Candy · Post by **Jewish Candy** » Mon May 04, 2015 5:09 pm

[quote="Adsolution"]Maybe she was nervous or unsure herself and didn't mean to hurt Brad at all, you don't know. You can't jump to conclusions about someone's character over something so incredibly vague.[/quote]In support of this, I will say that when a guy asks you out there is a general pressure to 'give him a chance' and 'avoid hurting his feelings'. For many it can be a bit of a tightrope to walk. Of course, none of us know the full picture and it's not for us to speculate - we just need to provide Brad with all the virtual tubs of ice cream he needs.

-- Tap problems
-- I'm so tired of this

Rayfist · Post by **Rayfist** » Mon May 04, 2015 5:29 pm

Jewish Candy wrote:we just need to provide Brad with all the virtual tubs of ice cream he needs.

Lol, he doesn't need ice cream because he'll be at home eating his life away after this incident.

Sorry though Brad, that sucks. I can't say I know rejection, I never asked anyone out in my life, but I admire the fact you actually gave it a shot. It was something I could never do but I was incredibly fortunate and had the girl I liked actually like me in the end, so she ended up asking me out. It's usually the other way around but man am I grateful because she's definitely help me overcome a lot of negativity that you guys might have seen from me on the forums in the past. To be honest though I do think Brad being blown off in the end was a bit unfair. I know it's a rather pressuring moment but she could easily say she couldn't hang out that day or anything else rather than being ditched on last minute. I can't say I know whether she really liked you or not Brad- were you guys friends at all? I usually find it's best to really wait those things out until we're like really good friends.

(+) Pretty sure I passed my sociology finals today!
(-) Three more remain

Imco wrote:+ I just beat the hell out of my sister. That was great

I am legitimately fucking dying right now, thanks for the good laugh and new sig quote.

incognito · Post by **incognito** » Mon May 04, 2015 5:32 pm

++++ Never had romantic feeling for someone, my freinds are calling me Sheldon

Sorry man.

-my grandma is feeling... bad, waiting for news.

- im stressed by many things.

Jewish Candy · Post by **Jewish Candy** » Mon May 04, 2015 9:04 pm

+ Well done Rayf!
- My sympathies to inco's nana.

Hoozang · Post by **Hoozang** » Mon May 04, 2015 9:07 pm

- I'm sorry Brad. I know it feels really awful now, but, it is what it is. Life, is always a surprise, some may be good but others may be not, but, life must go on, right?

Imco · Post by **Imco** » Mon May 04, 2015 9:12 pm

+ Yay! Sny really loved the gift we got her! Happy BDay Sny!

+ New couch is so comfy! Oh and for Candish, it's this one http://www.ikea.com/nl/nl/catalog/products/S39033797/

Master · Post by **Master** » Mon May 04, 2015 9:12 pm

- I always feel somewhat apprehensive and nervous when exams are coming up, while I do feel some nerves, I feel like I'm a little too calm at the same time, while that might be a positive, I kinda wonder if I'm not taking it all too seriously subconsciously.

Jewish Candy · Post by **Jewish Candy** » Mon May 04, 2015 9:16 pm

I used to be a bit like that. It's a weird feeling, not wanting to be stressed yet also feeling one should be stressed...

Imco wrote:+ New couch is so comfy! Oh and for Candish, it's this one http://www.ikea.com/nl/nl/catalog/products/S39033797/

+ Nice one! Snazzy.

technology4617 · Post by **technology4617** » Mon May 04, 2015 9:29 pm

OldClassicGamer wrote:Now this is just wrong in every single way. She shouldn't have first said yes and then no. But it is her loss anyways.
I think you should stop wasting time with her and look for someone else. She is not worth it. At least you still have your pride and if she changes her mind later and decides to go with you, you should then say no just to show that nobody can hurt you just like that.

- OCG is incapable of being remotely unbiased in his judgment of people he doesn't know.

Bradandez · Post by **Bradandez** » Mon May 04, 2015 9:52 pm

OldClassicGamer wrote:Now this is just wrong in every single way. She shouldn't have first said yes and then no. But it is her loss anyways.
I think you should stop wasting time with her and look for someone else. She is not worth it. At least you still have your pride and if she changes her mind later and decides to go with you, you should then say no just to show that nobody can hurt you just like that.

It's not wrong at all. Maybe I did ask way too early on this and might have made her nervous as well. Like I stated, she might have not wanted to hurt my feelings and I can understand that. Though, I would have much preferred an honest answer. And I would never say no to her like that. That's pretty cruel for me and I'm not that kind of guy.

Jewish Candy wrote:Awwwh, Brad... Yes, the healthy thing to do is move on. It can be hard to end romantic feelings, but a one-sided relationship is no relationship at all. I'm so sorry it happened the way it did, that's painful.

It is pretty unhealthy, but deep inside me I know I still would like to have a platonic relationship with her. She was an interesting gal, but now I feel like I wrecked that. Hopefully when I have the courage to message her again, I'll add that.

Adsolution wrote:Maybe she was nervous or unsure herself and didn't mean to hurt Brad at all, you don't know. You can't jump to conclusions about someone's character over something so incredibly vague.

Exactly. I don't want anyone of us to feel pressured. I would have respected her answer anyway it went.

Jewish Candy wrote:In support of this, I will say that when a guy asks you out there is a general pressure to 'give him a chance' and 'avoid hurting his feelings'. For many it can be a bit of a tightrope to walk. Of course, none of us know the full picture and it's not for us to speculate - we just need to provide Brad with all the virtual tubs of ice cream he needs.[/size]

Agreed. Even I don't know how she really feels. And no ice cream for me. Pizza is my only love now.

Rayfist wrote: Sorry though Brad, that sucks. I can't say I know rejection, I never asked anyone out in my life, but I admire the fact you actually gave it a shot. It was something I could never do but I was incredibly fortunate and had the girl I liked actually like me in the end, so she ended up asking me out. It's usually the other way around but man am I grateful because she's definitely help me overcome a lot of negativity that you guys might have seen from me on the forums in the past. To be honest though I do think Brad being blown off in the end was a bit unfair. I know it's a rather pressuring moment but she could easily say she couldn't hang out that day or anything else rather than being ditched on last minute. I can't say I know whether she really liked you or not Brad- were you guys friends at all? I usually find it's best to really wait those things out until we're like really good friends.

Yeah, it does kind of suck. This has been my second try asking someone out and getting rejected. It's very stressful to ask somebody out, but it does get a load of my chest. But like I said, I would have preferred an honest answer. And yeah, she was a friend. Ever since last year, we've been friends and I've been talking to her a lot since October, and we had some really good conversations.

Hoozang wrote:- I'm sorry Brad. I know it feels really awful now, but, it is what it is. Life, is always a surprise, some may be good but others may be not, but, life must go on, right?

I guess, but I had to take this shot sooner or later. I did ask her to go to a family trip with me since I had an extra ticket and I thought it would have been a good first date. I took the chance and though I'm not quite happy with her vague answer, I'm still glad I went for it.

Thanks everyone for the support. I guess I should give this love thing a break and focus on more important things like my art, job, school, and learning to drive. Thanks once again.

Imco · Post by **Imco** » Mon May 04, 2015 9:56 pm

Rayfist wrote:
Imco wrote: + I just beat the hell out of my sister. That was great
I am legitimately fucking dying right now, thanks for the good laugh and new sig quote.

Was it that funny? lol

+ I made it into someone's signature!

Rayfist · Post by **Rayfist** » Mon May 04, 2015 10:03 pm

I only found it funny because you're such an easy going, nice guy. And to hear you make a simple slip up just makes you sound violent as ever XD

No worries, it happens to the best of us. May I refer to the "fisting of pink rings" by a glorious member on these forums.

(+) has decided to invest in an MSI Gtx 970, very excited
(+) is going to study his ass off tomorrow while I have the day off for finals the day after

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