Re: Japan earthquake & tsunami
Posted: Tue Apr 05, 2011 9:03 pm
That is not correct; I always understand what other people think. It is not a difficult task. I think you are confusing ‘understanding’ with ‘agreement’.
Isn't that a bit pretentious ?spiraldoor wrote:I always understand what other people think.
No, it is not ‘pretentious’. Comprehending what someone means when they are talking to you is a very basic task.DesLife wrote:Isn't that a bit pretentious ?spiraldoor wrote:I always understand what other people think.
In what way am I ‘ruining the atmosphere’ that RayFan is not? Is it because some of my posts are long?Quickfist wrote:Spiral, I don't think you belong here. You're ruining the atmosphere.
I guess you should try that then !spiraldoor wrote:No, it is not ‘pretentious’. Comprehending what someone means when they are talking to you is a very basic task.DesLife wrote:Isn't that a bit pretentious ?spiraldoor wrote:I always understand what other people think.
It's not really the length, it's the tone. Rayfan generally tends to be more sociable. You are so serious and narrow-minded, it hurts. Most people around here are rather cheerful. It's a huge contrast.spiraldoor wrote:In what way am I ‘ruining the atmosphere’ that RayFan is not? Is it because some of my posts are long?Quickfist wrote:Spiral, I don't think you belong here. You're ruining the atmosphere.
As I have said more than once already, I do this all the time. So do most. And why not? It does not even require conscious effort.DesLife wrote:I guess you should try that then !spiraldoor wrote:No, it is not ‘pretentious’. Comprehending what someone means when they are talking to you is a very basic task.DesLife wrote:Isn't that a bit pretentious ?spiraldoor wrote:I always understand what other people think.
I am not quite sure what you mean by ‘sociable’; perhaps you would be appeased if I tossed a ‘:P’ emoticon into my posts every now and then? My posts are generally polite and respectful; what more could you want? Some jokes? My sense of humour is drier and less overt than the average, but I assure you that it is present. I do not see anything funny or joke-worthy about this thread or its contents; I make humorous comments from time to time where I feel it is appropriate. I am not an obnoxiously cheerful person when online; I find your preference that I should avoid this thread for such a reason quite perplexing and unfortunate. Overall I would concur with your view that the tone I have currently adopted is a ‘serious’ one; however, I wholly reject your assertion that I am ‘narrow-minded’. Not so; I contemplate ideas which I find alien or displeasing quite frequently. That does not mean that I must accept them or incorporate them into my own beliefs or practices; as far as I am aware, there is no such stringent criteria which must be met in order for one to be considered ‘open-minded’.Quickfist wrote:It's not really the length, it's the tone. Rayfan generally tends to be more sociable. You are so serious and narrow-minded, it hurts. Most people around here are rather cheerful. It's a huge contrast.
Being "sociable" I think is more you choice of words and how you phrase things, not what you toss in. Your posts tend to sound very cold and technical, and it turns people off. You can be serious, but you don't have to make it sound like you're superior. Maybe it's not your intent, but it's just what it appears to be, and it's not a pleasant thing to listen to/read. I find it easiest to read something under debate when we're not standing up straight like a pole with our hands anchored to our foreheads. It's just a general thing, it's nothing specific.spiraldoor wrote:As I have said more than once already, I do this all the time. So do most. And why not? It does not even require conscious effort.DesLife wrote:I guess you should try that then !spiraldoor wrote:No, it is not ‘pretentious’. Comprehending what someone means when they are talking to you is a very basic task.DesLife wrote:Isn't that a bit pretentious ?spiraldoor wrote:I always understand what other people think.
I am not quite sure what you mean by ‘sociable’; perhaps you would be appeased if I tossed a ‘:P’ emoticon into my posts every now and then? My posts are generally polite and respectful; what more could you want? Some jokes? My sense of humour is drier and less overt than the average, but I assure you that it is present. I do not see anything funny or joke-worthy about this thread or its contents; I make humorous comments from time to time where I feel it is appropriate. I am not an obnoxiously cheerful person when online; I find your preference that I should avoid this thread for such a reason quite perplexing and unfortunate. Overall I would concur with your view that the tone I have currently adopted is a ‘serious’ one; however, I wholly reject your assertion that I am ‘narrow-minded’. Not so; I contemplate ideas which I find alien or displeasing quite frequently. That does not mean that I must accept them or incorporate them into my own beliefs or practices; as far as I am aware, there is no such stringent criteria which must be met in order for one to be considered ‘open-minded’.Quickfist wrote:It's not really the length, it's the tone. Rayfan generally tends to be more sociable. You are so serious and narrow-minded, it hurts. Most people around here are rather cheerful. It's a huge contrast.
I'm in fully agree with RayFan here, because it is the exact point of view I have about the subject in question.RayFan9876 wrote:Your posts tend to sound very cold and technical, and it turns people off. You can be serious, but you don't have to make it sound like you're superior. Maybe it's not your intent, but it's just what it appears to be, and it's not a pleasant thing to listen to/read. I find it easiest to read something under debate when we're not standing up straight like a pole with our hands anchored to our foreheads. It's just a general thing, it's nothing specific.
My style of writing is clean, strict, calm, cold, dry, serious, eloquent, wikilike, baroque, sesquipedalian and usually flawless in terms of mechanics. I have not been using this style for very long; perhaps two years. I chose to adopt it simply because I found that it suited me better than the language of the typical teenaged videogame forumite. At this stage such writing comes naturally to me. You may think that it makes me sound ‘superior’; this was not my intention but it is a result with which I am perfectly comfortable. I will not alter my manner of writing simply because you find it ‘unpleasant’; I like the way it looks and sounds very much, and whether it causes you distress is none of my concern. I would have you know that I also dislike your own style of writing, but I make no such requests of you.RayFan9876 wrote:Being "sociable" I think is more you choice of words and how you phrase things, not what you toss in. Your posts tend to sound very cold and technical, and it turns people off. You can be serious, but you don't have to make it sound like you're superior. Maybe it's not your intent, but it's just what it appears to be, and it's not a pleasant thing to listen to/read. I find it easiest to read something under debate when we're not standing up straight like a pole with our hands anchored to our foreheads. It's just a general thing, it's nothing specific.
I am well aware of the fact that my posting style is different from yours and RayFan’s. I do not want anyone to ‘help’ me to abandon my choice of language.Haruka wrote:You could collaborate more with us by having conscience that we are just trying to alert you about your behaviour, and to try to help you at the same time.
It isn't about "abandoning" you know. Just changing a little.spiraldoor wrote:I do not want anyone to ‘help’ me to abandon my choice of language.
I wouldn't call it obsessed, but yes.... his english is almost too perfect.StaceyW wrote:Well for one you seem to be obsessed with perfect English and you said yourself that you take Rayman seriously, obsessions are a key factor in autistic spectrum disorders. If you don't think you have bad eye contact, have trouble reading body language, are gullible etc then fair enough.