Re: What keeps you calm?
Posted: Fri Aug 04, 2023 11:37 pm
Thank you. It's been a few months now, not sure if it's getting easier…
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What keeps you calm?
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Re: What keeps you calm?
Posted: Sat Aug 05, 2023 7:24 pm
It's normal to feel bad after some months, especially if the pet has been with you for many, many years. I remember that it took me about 4 months to not feel that bad after getting home and not seeing my buddy running around and celebrating that I came back. What I've learned about that is that you don't move on, you learn to live without them. It isn't an easy process, but you'll slowly feel better. Best wishes
Re: What keeps you calm?
Posted: Sat Aug 05, 2023 7:28 pm
It is beautiful what you say but two of my cats have been crushed one after the other and now I do not let out the youngest so that they do not happen to them the same thing, but they are very keen, so I do not know what to do ...DaveRattlehead wrote: ↑Sat Aug 05, 2023 7:24 pm It's normal to feel bad after some months, especially if the pet has been with you for many, many years. I remember that it took me about 4 months to not feel that bad after getting home and not seeing my buddy running around and celebrating that I came back. What I've learned about that is that you don't move on, you learn to live without them. It isn't an easy process, but you'll slowly feel better. Best wishes
Re: What keeps you calm?
Posted: Sat Aug 12, 2023 5:42 am
Man, that's rough. My condolences to the losses of your cats.
)? My sister's cat doesn't like going outside and actually prefers to stay inside the house at all times so it's possible. 
Hmm, maybe you could train your cat to get used to living indoors (I wouldn't know how to do that, though...Dumbo TV wrote: ↑Sat Aug 05, 2023 7:28 pmIt is beautiful what you say but two of my cats have been crushed one after the other and now I do not let out the youngest so that they do not happen to them the same thing, but they are very keen, so I do not know what to do ...DaveRattlehead wrote: ↑Sat Aug 05, 2023 7:24 pm It's normal to feel bad after some months, especially if the pet has been with you for many, many years. I remember that it took me about 4 months to not feel that bad after getting home and not seeing my buddy running around and celebrating that I came back. What I've learned about that is that you don't move on, you learn to live without them. It isn't an easy process, but you'll slowly feel better. Best wishes
)? My sister's cat doesn't like going outside and actually prefers to stay inside the house at all times so it's possible. 
Re: What keeps you calm?
Posted: Sun Aug 13, 2023 11:40 am
Oh no that’s really sad!Dumbo TV wrote: ↑Sat Aug 05, 2023 7:28 pmIt is beautiful what you say but two of my cats have been crushed one after the other and now I do not let out the youngest so that they do not happen to them the same thing, but they are very keen, so I do not know what to do ...DaveRattlehead wrote: ↑Sat Aug 05, 2023 7:24 pm It's normal to feel bad after some months, especially if the pet has been with you for many, many years. I remember that it took me about 4 months to not feel that bad after getting home and not seeing my buddy running around and celebrating that I came back. What I've learned about that is that you don't move on, you learn to live without them. It isn't an easy process, but you'll slowly feel better. Best wishes
I’d recommend keeping them inside unless you can trust them to go out, I have a cat and have had for 6 years, he’s ran off several times and we life on an A road but he’s still alive luckily. Here’s a tip:Don’t let them out until they are 1 years old and have a good knowledge of staying safe, unless they are meant for indoors
Re: What keeps you calm?
Posted: Tue Aug 15, 2023 10:43 am
Thx you for your support, it's rare such nice people on internet
Re: What keeps you calm?
Posted: Tue Aug 15, 2023 1:13 pm
No problem, it feels like people were born to be a pain to deal with, glad you and most people on this forum aren’t
Re: What keeps you calm?
Posted: Sat Aug 26, 2023 7:37 pm
Re: What keeps you calm?
Posted: Sat Aug 26, 2023 7:41 pm
Listening to music or trying to solve a problem that occupies my mind makes me feel at ease usually. Composing music also, anything creative like that.
Also yeah, there are a lot of nice people in the community.
Also yeah, there are a lot of nice people in the community.
Re: What keeps you calm?
Posted: Sat Aug 26, 2023 7:44 pm
Indeed. It's been a nice time around today. RD wouldn't even be possible in other communities.
Re: What keeps you calm?
Posted: Sat Aug 26, 2023 7:47 pm
I am very rarely stressed, but if I do start to feel anxious, I just remind myself that I'm not usually the kind of person to feel anxious and that usually fixes it.
Re: What keeps you calm?
Posted: Sat Aug 26, 2023 8:01 pm
I find it hard to write or draw when I'm upset. So I've got music and or taking a walk, preferably during a very light rain or just before it starts to rain. I suppose the warm breeze and gray/gold sky is calming?
Re: What keeps you calm?
Posted: Sat Aug 26, 2023 9:22 pm
You're so lucky!Ambidextroid wrote: ↑Sat Aug 26, 2023 7:47 pm I am very rarely stressed, but if I do start to feel anxious, I just remind myself that I'm not usually the kind of person to feel anxious and that usually fixes it.
For me I guess it's chilling out with the lads in the workplace, or getting a bit of fresh air, or even both, at lunchtime!
Re: What keeps you calm?
Posted: Sun Aug 27, 2023 7:04 am
For me, posting here keeps me calm because it lets me have a conversation without social anxiety getting in my way
Re: What keeps you calm?
Posted: Sun Aug 27, 2023 8:24 pm
Re: What keeps you calm?
Posted: Mon Aug 28, 2023 6:37 am
it’s just easier to talk to people down here than head to headThe Jonster wrote: ↑Sun Aug 27, 2023 8:24 pmOh my, really? With how much you've posted so far I'm kinda surprised you have social anxiety outside of here.
