The You Game!

[The Jonster]

This is not Fifo's server, it's the Retrofuge server < refers to. Why would < join Fifo's server? < isn't crazy

Okay good. < can't live with people who can't take a joke no matter how little they are.

Jokes lighten <'s life up sometimes even when < is down.

< can agree with that. To be perfectly honest here......< was feeling really blue and in the dumps when < first joined this community but thanks to everyone here, < has gone back to being as cheery as < was a year ago when < first started <'s web designer class.

[R4Y_ANC3L]

< has been told that < was crazy and trippy as balls(hence the quote in <'s sig) and < took it well because < knows That is how < tends to be sometimes.

< likes to joke around to have a good time with people and have a good laugh. It is nothing too offensive. And why should it be offensive. The jokes are just fowarded to a person's attitude and how they act since they are memorable.

[Steo]

That's all < is trying to say. Why would he join the Discord then complain about people "pinging" him. Also yeah he cries over the tiniest of jokes and has no problem criticising everyone else and that is why < has a problem with it all. < can imagine how much he'd cry over spilled milk.

< keeps telling him < is joking with him despite all the criticism < has taken and seen others take from him since joining RPC. It's like it goes in one ear and out the other and then he gets his sympathy for no reason that he doesn't deserve. Then thanks to that he just repeats the same crap over and over and claims he's a victim by "crying wolf". < has never been mean to anyone on here that hasn't been mean to < so < isn't just saying all this for nothing.

All < wants is the guy to lighten up and stop being so negative, bringing down everyone on RPC with all the negativity just like on Record Day. < doesn't want to cause a fuss but this is all true, just lighten up Fifo, there are people out there with horrible lives. Compared to them, you're living the lap of luxury.

[Reese Riverson]

While these jokes towards Fifo are harmless, it's up to him to respond in a given way and if he finds them bothersome then you're making jokes at his expense rather than just having a laugh with him. And to be fair, Fifo seems to be the butt of most of these jokes, while he doesn't make that many jokes at other people's expense.

Sure, he can respond to them in any way he wishes, but it doesn't change the fact that it makes him look like a butt due to him having no problem making jokes at other people's expense. Regardless of how many it may be.

I'm not denying the fact that jokes can get carried away too far, but even the tiniest joke towards him yields extreme negativity from him despite all the laughs he gets with even the tiniest joke against someone else. His attitude can be extremely off-putting most of the time, especially with all the experiences I've had with the guy during my years of posting on this forum when he's around. Both member and moderation experiences.

There are very good reasons why I do not accept him on instant messaging of any shape or form, because everything is always one sided with him. Be it jokes or things of interest. He expects everyone to give a shit about what he wants, but gives no shits about your interests. The effect of having no interest in what he is interested in usually puts him in a foul mood.

I've gave him the benefit of a doubt years back when I accepted him on Skype, and soon after blocked him due to his rotten attitude. I'm not going to speak to someone who's always so negative and I'm sure I'm not alone here.

Now please don't think I hate Fifo or anything because I really don't. I simply just can't stand the one sided attitude of his, and I really don't care for it. I'm not going to ignore him on the forum either or let him be bullied, but there just are a multitude of things that he needs to improve upon if he wants any decent friendships in life.

We all have grown up or have to grow up at some point in life.

[Steo]

< totally agrees with ^3 on that, jokes are funny and often brighten up peoples days

< also agrees with ^ and doesn't understand how some people can't actually see it (the attitude and negativity etc.)

< also noticed that when Jonster shared a song in the music thread, Fifo couldn't respect his taste in music just like ^ has explained and said "Eww how can you like that". Now put Fifo in their shoes, not everyone likes The Beatles either. How would he feel if we said "eww The Beatles suck"?

< also asked a question about eggs in This or That and while he could have just ignored it, he said "eww eggs are disgusting". What if someone said "eww Vinyl Records are awful"? Maybe he should think of how others might feel sometimes too before he throws that crap at them. Not to mention he broke the rules by not choosing either option and since he loves rules so much, that makes him a hypocrite.

Now before he comes on in the morning and starts crying wolf that "nobody likes him" or "his life is shit", just note that nobody here has said they hate or dislike the guy, as ^ said we just mean the attitude he gives to others can be appalling and that he needs to lighten up along with realising people have different opinions and taste in things.

< is not going to change <'s ways just because that one guy can't lighten up and realise we're only trying to have a laugh with him. He'll have to just deal with me or else lighten up and learn how to laugh.

[The Jonster]

In the end, what ^^ says is right, nothing < or anyone can do for Fifo will probably break through to him, and trust me, <'s tried numerous times. It's his own choice whether he wants to....

A. Takes our opinions to heart, grows up and gets a life.
or
B. Continues being a Sourpuss Squidward and thus wind up as the subject of more jokes or teasing.

In the meantime, < is going to move on with <'s life and continue having fun with everyone here like < always has done.

[Steo]

< has also tried to help and apologised about the day we had the guide troubles, but it's like talking to a wall, except that the wall criticises you and corrects you. It's like a wall full of notice boards

< will just start ignoring him completely and having fun with everyone else soon if (when) he keeps that up, though that might also prove difficult since he likes to butt in to others conversations, correcting them and ruining a good laugh.

So as < said, <'s advice is to learn to laugh, have fun and respect others opinions. That way RPC will be much more fun for everyone. < is only joking (up until this big rant) and believe <, if < hated or wanted to really insult you Fifo, then < would be saying say much worse and much more hurtful things than what < is actually saying, because they wouldn't be jokes.

[R4Y_ANC3L]

< will be going to bed soon.
In the end though. < doesn't give a shit when he moans needlessly. Other people in the matter professionally deal with him in the matter as far as changing is concerned.

If he refuses to laugh then let Chaos ensue. Laugh without him. There should be no problems there.

[The Jonster]

Yeah that's his problem, we'll just continue having fun without him.
< will also be sleeping soon, since tomorrow is another day of driving for <. Though not too soon, < says.

[Steo]

True ^^. The only reason < is even going this far into it, is because < is still hoping he'll read all this input and realise what he's doing wrong that annoys other users and change for the better. Though that's highly unlikely since it's been 4 years and nothing's changed

[Harpic fraîcheur]

< says some people don't like being teased. Everyone is different. Not everybody reacts to something the same way.

Have you got an idea how gay what you said there is?

While these jokes towards Fifo are harmless, it's up to him to respond in a given way and if he finds them bothersome then you're making jokes at his expense rather than just having a laugh with him. And to be fair, Fifo seems to be the butt of most of these jokes, while he doesn't make that many jokes at other people's expense.

On the other hand < thinks Fifo should try to appreciate the fact that they are only jokes at the end of the day and nobody means you any offence, it's all in the light of having a good time

< founds this even gayer.

< never thought someone could do worse than RealNigga205 at this point but of course Ambi arrived and felt the need to show off his gay thoughts too in front of all of us.

If there was a most gay member of RPC contest, we would've got a winner.

[Fifo]

< hopes the following will be enough:

First I would like to say that I’m very sorry for being so negative and refusing to respond when asked to.

I didn’t respond because it’d just piss me off more. I do read the posts though and I do know I’m behaving unnaturally.

I’m doing my best to control it though. But what do I do if I can’t hold it? Let it stress me out since I can’t let it out anywhere? No one wants to join my private vent areas and I get criticized whenever I vent publicly.

It’s not fair that I can’t do it here because of people lashing out at me.

I wish people would understand that I have serious issues with how my brain works and that I can’t control myself sometimes.

I’m very sorry for the drama and for those who I have annoyed.

Fifo.

[Steo]

< isn't really lashing out at ^, but trying to help ^ by explaining all the negatives just like < does with Jonster. < knows that if people don't actually tell ^ these things then ^ will never truly know to even attempt to try overcome these problems. Nobody here actually hates ^, it's just the attitude thing everyone has talked about and the negativity. < believes everyone here would actually be 100% behind ^ if ^ truly makes the effort to try improve ^'s self.

< and others make these jokes for fun and we don't do it to personally insult ^, we just expect ^ to laugh with us since we're joking with each other all the time

< thinks ^ is actually highly intelligent to be honest, not everybody can do the kind of stuff ^ can and clearly ^ knows a lot of stuff. Maybe the corrections etc. are just ^ wanting to show ^'s intelligence and not an attempt to annoy people?

< thinks maybe if something is bothering ^ then this would be the best place for it
viewtopic.php?t=5649

Though the one thing < wonders is why ^ would have problems with ^'s parents? ^'s parents clearly care a lot for ^ and give ^ somewhere to live so ^ doesn't live out on the streets. Just think of it like that, ^'s parents clearly love ^ and ^'s life is a lot better than what some others put up with. There's parents that don't give a shit about their kids.

< means all this in the nicest way possible, sometimes ^ should just try think of the good instead of only the bad and there's always someone worse off than ^. If ^ is going to post something about someone, just picture ^'s self as that person receiving the reply ^ is about to submit and just think, would ^ like to receive that reply ^'s self?

That's all the help < can give ^ really, and < really tried. At least ^ had the decency to apologise and realise ^'s made errors

[Fifo]

< isn't really lashing out at ^, but trying to help ^ by explaining all the negatives just like < does with Jonster. < knows that if people don't actually tell ^ these things then ^ will never truly know to even attempt to try overcome these problems.

< knows, < appreciates the explanations.

Nobody here actually hates ^, it's just the attitude thing everyone has talked about and the negativity. < believes everyone here would actually be 100% behind ^ if ^ truly makes the effort to try improve ^'s self.

< and others make these jokes for fun and we don't do it to personally insult ^, we just expect ^ to laugh with us since we're joking with each other all the time

< will do <’s best. < knows you’re not doing it to insult me/make fun of me – < just takes it that way.

< thinks ^ is actually highly intelligent to be honest, not everybody can do the kind of stuff ^ can and clearly ^ knows a lot of stuff.

< does realize that.

Maybe the corrections etc. are just ^ wanting to show ^'s intelligence and not an attempt to annoy people?

< doesn’t do it to annoy people at all. < just, as you said, likes showing that <’s good at spotting mistakes/typos!

< does understand that it annoys some tho.

< thinks maybe if something is bothering ^ then this would be the best place for it
viewtopic.php?t=5649

thanks

Though the one thing < wonders is why ^ would have problems with ^'s parents? ^'s parents clearly care a lot for ^ and give ^ somewhere to live so ^ doesn't live out on the streets.

< just doesn’t like it when others tell < what to do. < doesn’t feel in control.

Just think of it like that, ^'s parents clearly love ^ and ^'s life is a lot better than what some others put up with. There's parents that don't give a shit about their kids.

< thinks that’s cruel. <’s so glad < doesn’t have such cruel parents.

< means all this in the nicest way possible, sometimes ^ should just try think of the good instead of only the bad and there's always someone worse off than ^. If ^ is going to post something about someone, just picture ^'s self as that person receiving the reply ^ is about to submit and just think, would ^ like to receive that reply ^'s self?

That's all the help < can give ^ really, and < really tried. At least ^ had the decency to apologise and realise ^'s made errors

< appreciates those words.

< still feels so bad for the people affected by <’s shitty behavior.

[Reese Riverson]

I wish people would understand that I have serious issues with how my brain works and that I can’t control myself sometimes.

I’m very sorry for the drama and for those who I have annoyed.

Fifo.

< understands that ^ does have real struggles. ^ shouldn't be afraid to let others try to help, but too often < seen ^ shut everyone down.

< has seen a multitude of cases where ^ steps up and really shines, so < really believes ^ can do it.

[R4Y_ANC3L]

< just came here from waking up and is glad to see that things are looking up.

[The Jonster]

< still has hope that Fifo will change someday. < just hopes sooner rather than later.

< finally went for it and took a go on the UbiArt games last night. < had a lot of fun despite the fact that < only did 1 stage on each and < pretty much didn't get failed on one(Legends) and was short on the other(Origins). < understands now why ^3 loves Origins so much despite only playing for a bit.

< will give it another go later after < finishes the stuff < originally planned to do (1 file on SMS and SMG, and 5 save files on R3). Considering how fast < is completing the games, < doesn't think it will take that long.

[LoveMetal]

< thinks that this whole drama needs to fucking stop, no matter whose fault it is.

< will probably spend the week-end with Hunch in Paris.

[Reese Riverson]

< will probably spend the week-end with Hunch in Paris.

< hopes that ^ has a great time with Hunchman then.

[Aaron]

< also hopes ^^ will have a good time with Hunch.