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An upsetting message from an old member here

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I've been away for a long while and now it's my birthday today. WHOOPEEE! 14 at last! But i'm not feeling as comfortable right now because since it's been a very difficult life for myself (quite a lack of friends at my school, other people i know who treat me differently compared to everyone else..)
And i feel Unworthy here, making people annoyed, feeling hated by some people and always being serious, taking things seriously (though i'm not always like that towards my relatives) when i'm just trying to be good. I can't take a joke easily from people i don't know like you guys. I'm Emotional, Sensitive and sometimes worry too much you know. :cry:

Please answer the following questions so i know what you think of me exactly.

1. Do you think i'm always trying to be fabulous because i use Fab as my name here?
2. Do you think i'm annoying all the time? Most of the time? Sometimes?
3. How would you rate me overall? (out of 10)
4.Any other comments? Please specify

NOTE: Kelvin, if your reading this, then please, don't bother. Don't answer my questions, don't say anything. Your Absolutly Mean to me, no matter why i befriended you in the first place. :pascontent:
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Re: An upsetting message from an old member here

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Pr0oO does the rating around here now. :proud:
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Re: An upsetting message from an old member here

Post by Jman »

You know man... there isn't a member here that I dislike. Everyone is a 10 in my book, so you do not have to worry. Also, I assume, since you said that you just turned 14, that you are in middle school... That is when most people are tying to figure them selves out. It all gets better as you get older. High school is great, but college is supposed to be even better. So FAB, don't worry if you are having problems, things tend to work them selves out for the good.

Oh, and happy birthday!
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Re: An upsetting message from an old member here

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Jman wrote:Everyone is a 10 in my book
Sure. :roll:
Happy Birthday. :teuf:
Anyway, you're annoying...uh, somewhere between most of the time and sometimes....although my memory is vague.......
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Re: An upsetting message from an old member here

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1. Do you think i'm always trying to be fabulous because i use Fab as my name here?
That thought never crossed my mind
2. Do you think i'm annoying all the time? Most of the time? Sometimes?
Annoying in what way? Generally not though.
3. How would you rate me overall? (out of 10)
I don't rate members, I just choose whether to like them or not :wink:
And i feel Unworthy here, making people annoyed, feeling hated by some people and always being serious, taking things seriously
Can you give examples? Why do you feel unworthy?

Also, if there's anything you'd like to talk about, drop me a PM :wink: Of course I'll do anything I can to prevent a PC member from leaving.
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Re: An upsetting message from an old member here

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Xenon09 wrote:
2. Do you think i'm annoying all the time? Most of the time? Sometimes?
Annoying in what way? Generally not though.
And i feel Unworthy here, making people annoyed, feeling hated by some people and always being serious, taking things seriously
Can you give examples? Why do you feel unworthy?

Also, if there's anything you'd like to talk about, drop me a PM :wink: Of course I'll do anything I can to prevent a PC member from leaving.
First of all, i mean annoying in any way at all. And secondly, because of Holy Crap for eg, he quoted i am annoying. This makes me feel absolutly hated through out here. So i feel like leaving, unless i'm forgiven. And thankyou for quoting happy birthday Jman. And...HC. :|
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Re: An upsetting message from an old member here

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Hey man, HC is annoying. :mrgreen:
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I'll agree there.
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Re: An upsetting message from an old member here

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FAB wrote:
Xenon09 wrote:
2. Do you think i'm annoying all the time? Most of the time? Sometimes?
Annoying in what way? Generally not though.
And i feel Unworthy here, making people annoyed, feeling hated by some people and always being serious, taking things seriously
Can you give examples? Why do you feel unworthy?

Also, if there's anything you'd like to talk about, drop me a PM :wink: Of course I'll do anything I can to prevent a PC member from leaving.
First of all, i mean annoying in any way at all. And secondly, because of Holy Crap for eg, he quoted i am annoying. This makes me feel absolutly hated through out here. So i feel like leaving, unless i'm forgiven. And thankyou for quoting happy birthday Jman. And...HC. :|
I said I don't hate you. I don't even dislike you. You are probably a cool dude.
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1) I always thought you were referring to Thunderbirds. :P
2) Most young teens behave the same way, I know I did when I was that age.
3) I don't rate people, even those who I think are complete douchebags
4) I asked this before and I'll ask again - do you have autism, aspergers etc? I know it might be personal but I want to help you here. Having aspergers myself I had the same struggles when I was at school age, and it helps to concentrate on your interests as well as schoolwork. I still have my own sensitivities and I can't take many jokes, but as you get older you might look back and think to yourself "why did those stupid comments make my cry so much?".

We were all noobs once, and we all say stupid things at some points, it's just human. Learning though these mistakes can help you cope more, and don't be afraid to ask questions even if they sound stupid.

Have a nice birthday nonetheless.
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he quoted i am annoying. This makes me feel absolutly hated through out here. So i feel like leaving, unless i'm forgiven
Well, Holy Crap is the annoying one in these parts :P

And as Stacey said, we were all noobs once. I once was a massive noob and I admit it fully.
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And i feel Unworthy here, making people annoyed, feeling hated by some people and always being serious, taking things seriously (though i'm not always like that towards my relatives) when i'm just trying to be good. I can't take a joke easily from people i don't know like you guys. I'm Emotional, Sensitive and sometimes worry too much you know.
If you're talking about real life, that's how I felt last year. I really hated myself. :oops2: But now I just laugh at what happened to me!
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Re: An upsetting message from an old member here

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FAB wrote: 1. Do you think i'm always trying to be fabulous because i use Fab as my name here?
nah its just a username not as random as mine
FAB wrote:2. Do you think i'm annoying all the time? Most of the time? Sometimes?
no i dont know you :oops2:
FAB wrote:3. How would you rate me overall? (out of 10)
well.... i WAS going to give you a 7 then i saw dis :
FAB wrote:NOTE: Kelvin, if your reading this, then please, don't bother. Don't answer my questions, don't say anything. Your Absolutly Mean to me, no matter why i befriended you in the first place. :pascontent:
now i give you a 3
FAB wrote:4.Any other comments? Please specify
yeah, why did i just do this?
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Post by Xenon »

I'd also like to see where Kelvin (or any other members here) were rude to him. I've never seen it, at least from what I remember.
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I don't really wanna bring this up and upset him but: viewtopic.php?t=4711 There's also this in Mr. Dark's fanfic thread before he joined here: http://forums.ubi.com/eve/forums/a/tpc/ ... 091956/p/3

That's all I can be bothered to bring up at the moment.
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RayRaySerza5 wrote:
FAB wrote:3. How would you rate me overall? (out of 10)
well.... i WAS going to give you a 7 then i saw dis :
FAB wrote:NOTE: Kelvin, if your reading this, then please, don't bother. Don't answer my questions, don't say anything. Your Absolutly Mean to me, no matter why i befriended you in the first place. :pascontent:
now i give you a 3
FAB wrote:4.Any other comments? Please specify
yeah, why did i just do this?
First of all, you can't just dislike because i said i'm disliking kelvin. Because the fact he's a Meanie towards my life, that is a fair point. And second, your answer to my final question doesn't make sense. Obviously i'm asking if you have any other commenst about anything to do with me. I think you shouldn't answer someone's questions about upsetting matters if you don't even know them.

Stacyw: I know Kelvin did that, long time ago. Btw, did you call me nothingness or something? :(

Hunchman: Thanks for that post. It sort of made my day. Just like most of the people's posts so far on this topic. And kelvin is my only problem here really.

Jman: I never said you hated me. Sorry i should have made that more clear. :|

Overall, thanks people. I just want kelvin to see me say this: What is your problem?! Saying Absolutly Pathetic Nonsense to Upset me...Your just saying all these things because you're not saying it all face-to-face with myself. Thats what you call A COWARD! What are you going to do? Kick me in the nuts?! Trust me, i do Judo every Saturday in some club in my school since 2006. If you said you can do anything else Martial Art related, i won't believe you. Just Leave me alone and don't bother making yourselve look smarter than me Kelvin.

I hope that'll teach him a fair lesson. If anyone thinks this doesn't acually make me smarter than Kelvin then let me know.
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Post by Xenon »

Can I make a suggestion? Why don't you both just forget this whole issue [whatever it was] and move on? That would be the ideal solution.
Hunchman: Thanks for that post. It sort of made my day. Just like most of the people's posts so far on this topic. And kelvin is my only problem here really.
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Nothingness whut?

Shouting like that is NOT going to solve the problem young man. >8(
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Xenon: Oh, sorry. I should have double checked. Cause he's got the same rank. :| And Btw, i don't think Kelvin's going to forget about it. (Though i acually wish he would) He hates me so bad. :(

Stacyw: Sorry friend, i understand, but surely some of it was good sense. :( And please don't call me young man. It insultes me a bit.

Now i have 60% Confiedence to leave.
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1. No.
2. No.
3. 8 and a half.
4. No.

That was easy.
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