Oh, my definition of "teen love" is not-true love. The reason being that teens are generally thought to be more irrational, so teen love = irrational love = not-true love. Probably less than one out of a fifty people keep the same girlfriend/boyfriend throughout high school then and end up marrying them.iambored2006 wrote:Then it's obviously not real love. How true teen love should be expressed is beyond me, but I don't think the way is through any physical contact. Or maybe what I'm looking for is simply a girl friend and not a girlfriend. All I know is, I don't want to miss out on teen love. It's something that shouldn't be mocked or ridiculed as it is supposed to be very special.RayFan9876 wrote:Well that's the kind of teen love that's around here. My friends (usually girls) always come crying to me because their boyfriends break up with them. I described exactly what's happening around me.
Here's the depression again.
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My grandparents are one out of 50.
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That was a lot more common back then. Through social networking/cell phones those things have changed. Back then if you wanted to meet your lover at night you had to meet them in person, making it all the more special. Now 90% of non-school talking is through Social Networking.RayTunes wrote:My grandparents are one out of 50.
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Indeed. Some idiots on YouTube say they married each other true comments. Right...RayFan9876 wrote:That was a lot more common back then. Through social networking/cell phones those things have changed. Back then if you wanted to meet your lover at night you had to meet them in person, making it all the more special. Now 90% of non-school talking is through Social Networking.RayTunes wrote:My grandparents are one out of 50.
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Well, you can use both. I'm trying to be both modern and have class: that is, inviting a girl on facebook on a real date. My problem is, I simply can't look at girls my age. They're so immature. As are the boys. I've met some girls who are a year older than me in a 'village' where my cousin/best friend lives. They were really nice, very mature, and not slutty at all. I actually felt I was just hanging out with friends. Why can't I have this in Jerusalem?!
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Smaller economic zones such as villages or small town folk tend to naturally act more humble than the big city folk, mostly due to a lack of commercialized industrialization and everything that branches off of it.iambored2006 wrote:Well, you can use both. I'm trying to be both modern and have class: that is, inviting a girl on facebook on a real date. My problem is, I simply can't look at girls my age. They're so immature. As are the boys. I've met some girls who are a year older than me in a 'village' where my cousin/best friend lives. They were really nice, very mature, and not slutty at all. I actually felt I was just hanging out with friends. Why can't I have this in Jerusalem?!
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You're right. And it's not fair. Damn, is it not fair.RayFan9876 wrote:Smaller economic zones such as villages or small town folk tend to naturally act more humble than the big city folk, mostly due to a lack of commercialized industrialization and everything that branches off of it.iambored2006 wrote:Well, you can use both. I'm trying to be both modern and have class: that is, inviting a girl on facebook on a real date. My problem is, I simply can't look at girls my age. They're so immature. As are the boys. I've met some girls who are a year older than me in a 'village' where my cousin/best friend lives. They were really nice, very mature, and not slutty at all. I actually felt I was just hanging out with friends. Why can't I have this in Jerusalem?!
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That’s an enormous generalisation.iambored2006 wrote:There can't be anything sexual in teen love for it to be true love.
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That's just how I feel. I had a crush on someone a couple of years ago, and as much as I'm a horny guy, no sexual thought crossed my mind.spiraldoor wrote:That’s an enormous generalisation.iambored2006 wrote:There can't be anything sexual in teen love for it to be true love.
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And I've got a crush on a girl in my school but she's 2 years older. She seems to like me too.
Gee. Too bad I'm so shy.
Gee. Too bad I'm so shy.
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shyness is a curse :'(Rulez wrote:And I've got a crush on a girl in my school but she's 2 years older. She seems to like me too.
Gee. Too bad I'm so shy.
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Girls like that though.ikke471 wrote:shyness is a curse :'(Rulez wrote:And I've got a crush on a girl in my school but she's 2 years older. She seems to like me too.
Gee. Too bad I'm so shy.
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Which can be temporarily lifted by alcohol!ikke471 wrote: shyness is a curse :'(
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You shouldn't let such a minor problem stand in your way! I was, and am, very very shy, but I'm trying as hard as I can to suppress my shyness and talk to girls I like. Seriously, don't let it stand in your way!Rulez wrote:And I've got a crush on a girl in my school but she's 2 years older. She seems to like me too.
Gee. Too bad I'm so shy.
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why the **** don't they like me thenRulez wrote:Girls like that though.ikke471 wrote:shyness is a curse :'(Rulez wrote:And I've got a crush on a girl in my school but she's 2 years older. She seems to like me too.
Gee. Too bad I'm so shy.
anyway....... mostly the guy has to be older
Tobbe get's 1000 points for awesomnessTobbe wrote:Which can be temporarily lifted by alcohol!
(btw it doesn't quitte work when you're 15
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Well again that's a bland generalization. Some girls like something other girls might not. A lot of girls are bored by shyness whereas a lot find it cute. There's a huge spectrum of stuff girls like no less prominent than the variety of stuff guys like.Rulez wrote:Girls like that though.ikke471 wrote:shyness is a curse :'(Rulez wrote:And I've got a crush on a girl in my school but she's 2 years older. She seems to like me too.
Gee. Too bad I'm so shy.
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It did for me!ikke471 wrote:Tobbe get's 1000 points for awesomnessTobbe wrote:Which can be temporarily lifted by alcohol!
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Indeed, I never understood the attraction to older girls. It just seems... off.ikke471 wrote:anyway....... mostly the guy has to be older
That really depends where you live.ikke471 wrote:Tobbe get's 1000 points for awesomnessTobbe wrote:Which can be temporarily lifted by alcohol!
(btw it doesn't quitte work when you're 15)
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that's true..spiraldoor wrote:That really depends where you live.ikke471 wrote:Tobbe get's 1000 points for awesomnessTobbe wrote:Which can be temporarily lifted by alcohol!
(btw it doesn't quitte work when you're 15)
but i live in the netherlands where i can geet drunk legaly on my 16th (they even wanna change that to 18
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How so? 'm just curious because that seems like an odd factor to take into account when bringing intoxication into the equation.spiraldoor wrote:That really depends where you live.ikke471 wrote:Tobbe get's 1000 points for awesomnessTobbe wrote:Which can be temporarily lifted by alcohol!
(btw it doesn't quitte work when you're 15)
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If it has to do with legally obtaining alcohol, well, we all know that that's like the easiest thing in the world.


