I know you're upset about it, and I empathise, but "today is the worst day of my life" really says so little, yet so much at the same time.Danone wrote:Today is the worst day of my life, the girl I love since almost a year have a boyfriend.
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Adsolution

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I think you may be overreacting just a tad there. I'd say just bide your time. Wait long enough and they'll probably have broken up.Danone wrote:Today is the worst day of my life, the girl I love since almost a year have a boyfriend.
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Hes not overreacting. That happened for me too one time and it hurts A LOT! When it happened to me i almost thought i wanna kill myself.The Edditaur wrote:I think you may be overreacting just a tad there. I'd say just bide your time. Wait long enough and they'll probably have broken up.Danone wrote:Today is the worst day of my life, the girl I love since almost a year have a boyfriend.
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Killing yourself is always an overreaction. Even your biggest first-world problems look pale and insignificant in the face of Death.Mammothphant 2 wrote:Hes not overreacting. That happened for me too one time and it hurts A LOT! When it happened to me i almost thought i wanna kill myself.
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Truthfully, almost any problems, even the very ugly ones pale in comparison to death.spiraldoor wrote:Killing yourself is always an overreaction. Even your biggest first-world problems look pale and insignificant in the face of Death.Mammothphant 2 wrote:Hes not overreacting. That happened for me too one time and it hurts A LOT! When it happened to me i almost thought i wanna kill myself.
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I'd love to sympathise but it's happened to me too y'know... At least 3 times now as far as I can remember. In fact, one of those times one of them was literally "stolen" by an untrustworhy friend after he said that he'd get me and her together. And I didn't think of killing myself...Mammothphant 2 wrote:Hes not overreacting. That happened for me too one time and it hurts A LOT! When it happened to me i almost thought i wanna kill myself.The Edditaur wrote:I think you may be overreacting just a tad there. I'd say just bide your time. Wait long enough and they'll probably have broken up.Danone wrote:Today is the worst day of my life, the girl I love since almost a year have a boyfriend.
...I mean, t'was a trigger of possibly one of the worse times I've ever had in my life which did make me feel like killing myself a couple of times but still, it wasn't because of a girl.
Honestly though, teenage relationships usually don't last very long from what I've seen. Usually about 2 weeks tops and that's it. Over and done with. So as I said before, wait a bit. It won't kill you to wait.
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From my observatory experience in Canada, they usually last around 1-3 months. Any shorter is a laughing matter, and any longer is cute.
But I would rather swallow glass than hear someone contemplate suicide over a highschool relationship again. Things of that milder magnitude happen all the time throughout adulthood, and while I can't speak directly from experience since I'm only in highschool myself, you would probably be beaten miserable if you can't cope with something like this.
Note that I wasn't comparing high school relationships to adult relationships, that was merely a magnitudinal comparison.
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But I would rather swallow glass than hear someone contemplate suicide over a highschool relationship again. Things of that milder magnitude happen all the time throughout adulthood, and while I can't speak directly from experience since I'm only in highschool myself, you would probably be beaten miserable if you can't cope with something like this.
Note that I wasn't comparing high school relationships to adult relationships, that was merely a magnitudinal comparison.
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And MyBodyIsReady is now tooRulez wrote:As for the forum, obviously my bestestestestest friends are Danone, ikke, MDT, TeensieKing and RayFan.
I actually have a lot of friendships, both real and online. There are some good friends in my new school, which to my suprise know a lot of stuff about internet memes, even video games (yes, even Rayman). I have much more online friendships (like Rulez) and I hope I will meet new friends here
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k.MyBodyIsReady wrote:Btw. I'm single
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What about your mom ?
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MyBodyIsReady

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Well, at least you have usDanone wrote:Today is the worst day of my life, the girl I love since almost a year have a boyfriend.
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spiraldoor

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It seems that your body is ready.MyBodyIsReady wrote:Btw. I'm single
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Ready to rest, that is.
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Certainly.
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I find that relationships geeks have seem to last quite a while...
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True, but they usually handle it like complete shit when it ends.Acarr wrote:I find that relationships geeks have seem to last quite a while...
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spiraldoor wrote:It seems that your body is ready.MyBodyIsReady wrote:Btw. I'm single
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Y'know what annoys me a lot in P-C, and forums in general but there's an unusually high concentration here, is people who throw around the word 'love' far too liberally. I've noticed loads of young people talk about girls from their schools who they claim to be in love with, yet never even seem to talk to them much, and to me this poses a contradiction, as to love someone you need to have a deep understanding of their personality, so perhaps this 'love' that you feel is not love for that person, but instead love for an idealised version of that person that you imagine, or even a yearning for the idea of love, or physical companionship. Just something to think about and maybe even save you some emotional "turmoil"
Also in my experience some younger people confuse fancying someone with love as well, hard to believe but true :/
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Also in my experience some younger people confuse fancying someone with love as well, hard to believe but true :/
/rant
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That's because we have a high concentration of young people...MrBadGuy wrote:Y'know what annoys me a lot in P-C, and forums in general but there's an unusually high concentration here
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I donnu love, I just make it 



