Friendship, love et cetera

[Dark Lum Lord]

I have and do tend to keep to myself, so I'm able to avoid that shit. Actually, not entirely, I'm able to keep myself out of it, but I'll still see it go down all the time. However, I tend to get paranoid and believe others are talking shit about me behind my back all the time. I remember I used to be so anxious that if I heard someone say shit about someone ever I would automatically assume they were talking about me, even if I were right next to them; lucky that I didn't have a heart attack because every time I heard someone talk shit my heart sank.

Anyways, the feeling I hate the most is when you feel like someone you used to be close to is drifting away. I had that feeling last week, but I feel like I've mostly gotten over it since I've managed to revive a few relationships of mine.

[sonicbrawler182]

I have and do tend to keep to myself, so I'm able to avoid that shit. Actually, not entirely, I'm able to keep myself out of it, but I'll still see it go down all the time. However, I tend to get paranoid and believe others are talking shit about me behind my back all the time. I remember I used to be so anxious that if I heard someone say shit about someone ever I would automatically assume they were talking about me, even if I were right next to them; lucky that I didn't have a heart attack because every time I heard someone talk shit my heart sank.

Anyways, the feeling I hate the most is when you feel like someone you used to be close to is drifting away. I had that feeling last week, but I feel like I've mostly gotten over it since I've managed to revive a few relationships of mine.

IT'S THE MOOOOOST WONDERFUL TIIIIME, OF THE YEEEEAR~

[technology4617]

IT'S THE MOOOOOST WONDERFUL TIIIIME, OF THE YEEEEAR~

Not sure you know how hard that made me laugh.

[OCG]

I imagined in my head that Robotnik's voice from AoStH said it.

[Master]

I've been hearing a version that seems to be coming on some of the adverts.

[Dark Lum Lord]

I imagined in my head that Robotnik's voice from AoStH said it.

I read it in Daria's voice, had a good laugh.

[ZombieChicken6]

I have and do tend to keep to myself, so I'm able to avoid that shit. Actually, not entirely, I'm able to keep myself out of it, but I'll still see it go down all the time. However, I tend to get paranoid and believe others are talking shit about me behind my back all the time. I remember I used to be so anxious that if I heard someone say shit about someone ever I would automatically assume they were talking about me, even if I were right next to them; lucky that I didn't have a heart attack because every time I heard someone talk shit my heart sank.

Anyways, the feeling I hate the most is when you feel like someone you used to be close to is drifting away. I had that feeling last week, but I feel like I've mostly gotten over it since I've managed to revive a few relationships of mine.

i can relate i actuay made a mistake lastyear but don't pleasure to talk about LIVe. BRO

i had a girl friend lastyear , but she stabbed me with a aurmy knife on the bus with a knife last year so i dumped him

my best friends is

what i dont ge t about friend ship is how is gets really complacated constantly. i think because simpler because would be better life

[Keane]

are you a real human

i cant tell from your post history

[Rulez]

Gosh, ZombieChicken! You're a fascinating person! You should work as a Ting accountant for someone! That would be a nice solution!

[OCG]

are you a real human

i cant tell from your post history

Answer is really easy.

[Shrooblord]

Gosh, ZombieChicken! You're a fascinating person! You should work as a Ting accountant for someone! That would be a nice solution!

Yes! And perhaps it would be really inconspicuous and nobody should draw attention to it! Then it would be fantastic, don't you think, Rulez?

[Snagglebee]

#Bump
It's weird I know.. There is once girl in school, I keep noticing her. It's weird, because I don't know her, yet I seem to filter her everytime out from the crowd. Although I have never spoken to her, I find her really pretty. She got that beautiful hair, that pretty face, always have seen her in that beautiful long coat and that admirable shy build. I only have seen her from a distance but I noticed she almost always sits alone and walks around the schoolyard. Just yesterday, on me free hours, I saw her sitting in that empty schoolyard alone. I had that idea, I should sit next to her and try to talk to her... but I fealed it would just be weird, because I don't know her... and probably she also doesn't know who I am, but I can't be really sure about that, since the majority in the whole school knows me ._. So I just walked away and went to my car. Yet the same day I when I came back to the next lessons, me and a friend walked towards our room and she again popped up alone moving in the other direction. We looked at each others confused faces... and it was magical, like the time stopped for a moment.... It all got too weird for me to handle.. So guys,.... what do you think?

[MrBadGuy]

My advice would be to just talk to her, you know, think of a casual reason to strike up a conversation and see where it goes from there. The most important thing is to get to know her, for real, as soon as possible, it can be awkward to approach someone for the first time, but just find a way :)

[Jewish Candy]

Yes! Infatuation can feel weird, but it's quite normal to develop those sorts of feelings during youth. If you do want to pursue it and discover her as a person, just take it casual and don't have a specific 'goal' in mind. Interact for the pleasure of interaction. Who knows what'll happen?

[Snagglebee]

Who knows what'll happen?

She starts making fun of me, everybody will hear what I have done, and I might lose my hard earned status and everybody will start bullying me again and I might because of that lose my friends in school ._.

[Jewish Candy]

Oh? I'm guessing from your tone that such a thing has happened before. Well, only you know the risks involved in talking to her and what you're prepared to do.

If you're scared or don't want to do anything then, perhaps it's best that you try to lay your feelings to rest? Infatuations shouldn't be left to fester, because they're entirely one-sided. There are many other humans beans out there, be gentle with yourself.

[Snagglebee]

Oh? I'm guessing from your tone that such a thing has happened before. Well, only you know the risks involved in talking to her and what you're prepared to do.

Such incident never happened luckily. But I am just very nervous and scared in trying to talk to her and I usually always expect the worst scenery when trying something new.

If you're scared or don't want to do anything then, perhaps it's best that you try to lay your feelings to rest? Infatuations shouldn't be left to fester, because they're entirely one-sided. There are many other humans beans out there, be gentle with yourself.

Sounds very reasonable.

[MrBadGuy]

When someone starts making fun of you like that, often times if you just laugh along with it, then it's suddenly a different situation. You're now included in the joke rather than the butt of it or whatever. Just something I've noticed, but a lot of what people call "bullying" is only called that because of the reaction given by the recipient.

If you talk to this girl and she isn't interested, you just need to show that that doesn't bother you!

[Jewish Candy]

Such incident never happened luckily. But I am just very nervous and scared in trying to talk to her and I usually always expect the worst scenario when trying something new.

Hehe, I'm a lot like that too. There's always that fear that our lives might come crashing down if we make one wrong move. Sometimes we have to throw ourselves into new experiences, but at other times it's okay to go slow and take baby steps. Listen to what you need inside.

The scenario that you described seems unlikely to me to happen from simple, friendly, undemanding interaction, but I think you know this and just can't help feeling as worried as you do. Do you have any friends IRL that you can talk to about this? They can help you to take said baby steps, if necessary.

[Snagglebee]

Do you have any friends IRL that you can talk to about this?

I do indeed, but telling them that is a different thing then saying that out loud in the internet. Here, almost nobody know me who I really am, but IRL everybody can frame me easily.