Im not okay with you, he might feel exited.Adsolution wrote:Would it be at all productive to tell your parents about it? I'm not sure what they'd even be able to do - intervening, like you said, could end up causing more trouble. In most cases, I think it's reasonable to assume his type won't get aggressive. They're pussies who back off the moment a threat arises; they just exploit naïvety, and I think they often mistake shyness for it. Either that or they think their victim is shy enough to not do anything about it, and they know that you know they're getting what they want with zero repercussions.
I'm not sure how you assert yourself in person in general, but if I were in your shoes, I would probably move aggressively and with confidence (but not agitatedly - don't pretend he doesn't exist, that's a sign of weakness). If he sees himself as some alpha male and you don't want to be taken advantage of, you need to be that 'alpha male'. Make eye contact. Make him feel like he's being watched - he's the one on your turf after all. Unclear psychological warfare is so effective because it instills a sense of unknowing, and the last thing a creeper would ever attempt is venturing into unknown territory.
My opinion is to clear every points once and for all.
I personally do that and every one seems to be afraid of me, (sunglasses cap knives and gloves are also playing a role in that )
but my solution is to corner him, (a kitchen meat knife might help) and tell him that if he touch you again, your skin will be the last thing his hand will feel.
