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did you get it confused with “BiGender”??
did you get it confused with “BiGender”??
I also still get them confused, honestlyI thought bisexual was identifying as both genders until only a few months ago! I still get it confused with pansexual![]()
I experienced something similar, too. I was, and even now i’m called “boyish” for some of my interests. I had a lot of gender dysphoria a few years ago, but i now that i look back, i think it was because i had internalised misogyny..Tbh since I was a child I was more Tom boyish then most girls. Sure I still liked “girl” shows like MLP and such but I didn’t like wearing dresses, and would cry whenever I had to put one on. Literally melt down. Then when I was 12 I discovered I was trans, and it took me a while to come in terms with it. Now I’m happily living with it! I’m just not sure if I want to actually transition outside of top surgery…
Oh yeah, I remember in primary school we read an extract in English class from a novel called "Bill's New Frock" which had a premise along those lines. That'd be an interesting world to live in!Actually funny story but when I was younger I didn’t know that becoming trans was something you did yourself, I feared that I could become a woman at any given time!![]()
I'm curious, do people you know IRL know you're trans, or is it a private thing?
You can be listed as "agender" in Canada? That's pretty accommodating, I'm pretty sure here it's still just male and female…
And who dares you to do such things?![]()
I was reading today about some survey (I think it was of college students) where about 75% said they were straight, 10% bi, and then 2~3% gay and another 2~3% ace. So perhaps the latter groups are somewhat overrepresented here – I'm sure there's a scientific explanation for that!