Same here with my mom. xD I pity those that encounter her (employees at a gas station for example, she is one of those.. customers that make you nervous) xD
I think Mom does it behind my back because she's scared I'll talk back. I'm moved out now, so I dun have to worry about it....though I'm sure right now she's still talking garbage about me for whatever reason.
My mom always got onto me for slacking on washing the dishes when I had to, now that I work and she has to wash them, she does the same thing as I had. Oh well, at least I don't get into trouble, really, anymore. XD
My sister is in charge of dishes now....little brat withdrew a lotta money from her bank account to buy a Dish Washer....WHY she didn't do that while I was the one suffering, I have no idea...lotta times it'd take me 2 hours to do the dishes!
I would have loved to have a dishwasher when I was in charge of the chores, that way I could get everything else done and actually have freetime in my day. T_T I was the only one who did ANYTHING in that house for such a long time.