Girlfriends and Boyfriends

spiraldoor said:
I am a sad and lonely individual.


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ikke471 said:
spiraldoor said:
I am a sad and lonely individual.
You're not the only one
It'll happen at some point. I can guarantee. :)


For me the thought of having a boyfriend or a date seems pretty awesome and I feel happy to think about it, but there's something about it that scares me sort of. I'm not fully sure what it is, but when I visualize the thought of me having a deep relationship with anyone except someone who meets my vision less than 99%, I feel anxious. It's not the thought that I'll never end up with someone, it's the thought about being intimate that scares me, especially with not exactly the right person.
 
RayFan9876 said:
ikke471 said:
spiraldoor said:
I am a sad and lonely individual.
You're not the only one
It'll happen at some point. I can guarantee. :)


For me the thought of having a boyfriend or a date seems pretty awesome and I feel happy to think about it, but there's something about it that scares me sort of. I'm not fully sure what it is, but when I visualize the thought of me having a deep relationship with anyone except someone who meets my vision less than 99%, I feel anxious. It's not the thought that I'll never end up with someone, it's the thought about being intimate that scares me, especially with not exactly the right person.
I know but... I'm 15 and i still havn't got 1 girlfriend (not even a vacation one) and eveybody elso i know does... And that makes me a Sad and lonely induvidual.. :(
 
I've also never had a ''girlfriend'', but I do have some girls as friends. :P
Most guys get a real girlfriend at the age of 18-20, so I have all the time.
 
Rsandee said:
I've also never had a ''girlfriend'', but I do have some girls as friends. :P
Most guys get a real girlfriend at the age of 18-20, so I have all the time.
Most girls just ignore me exept one who is nice agains everybody and i heard the gossips (is that how it is called) about me and that didn't made me happy :(
 
Rsandee said:
I've also never had a ''girlfriend'', but I do have some girls as friends. :P
Most guys get a real girlfriend at the age of 18-20, so I have all the time.
Everything about this is correct.

RayTunes you're sad because you don't have a girlfriend or because you don't have any friends that are girls?
 
RayFan9876 said:
Rsandee said:
I've also never had a ''girlfriend'', but I do have some girls as friends. :P
Most guys get a real girlfriend at the age of 18-20, so I have all the time.
Everything about this is correct.

RayTunes you're sad because you don't have a girlfriend or because you don't have any friends that are girls?
I think you ment me and not raytunes but my problem is that i have been in love 5 times now and every time i tell her i feel attracted to her she just walks away and ignores me the rest of her life...and if i try to talk to her she scouts at me saying horrible stuff to me an leave me behind... And now i'm in love with someone i am "just friends" with but she doesn't know it.....now a friend of her was on her Facebook page an blokked me (on the account of the one i love) without any good reason.. She said something about that she deserves better....WTF!...... that's why i'm sad and lonely
 
ikke471 said:
I think you ment me and not raytunes but my problem is that i have been in love 5 times now and every time i tell her i feel attracted to her she just walks away and ignores me the rest of her life...and if i try to talk to her she scouts at me saying horrible stuff to me an leave me behind... And now i'm in love with someone i am "just friends" with but she doesn't know it.....now a friend of her was on her Facebook page an blokked me (on the account of the one i love) without any good reason.. She said something about that she deserves better....WTF!...... that's why i'm sad and lonely

I've been dissapointed before, but this was for good reasons. The girl has changed, and has done many acts of stupidity. She is addicted to iDevices, and is attracted by gay boys. After all i'm happy that it never became anything between us.

I've currently found a girl that meets my interests, but I find it unlikely. She is religious, and I simply cannot find a way to believe, even if I wanted to. I've decided that I will not find love until the age of 18/19, when I will return to the Netherlands for college. That will remain a challange, as i've noticed the increasing amount of alcoholic people in our country. Some start at age of 10! I wouldn't want this to become a problem, and to think of the increasement in this happening. :?
 
Acarr said:
I wonder what people's sexual orientations are here...

RayTunes said:
Acarr said:
RayTunes said:
attracted by gay boys.

As are many girls. Think of it in the way that guys are attracted by lesbians. :)
That's right. Still, it creeps me out. :?

How?
The guy she likes is more of a girl. Trust me, I have lots of them at my school. There is even a guy who likes ME. :shock:
 
I suppose that's understandable :L Wow, people here get it badly when they open up...
 
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