So, like I said, I can relate to having trouble speaking with girls, but I have troubles speaking with people regardless of gender. I'd have to say that I have an equal amount of trouble speaking with people of both genders. With girls that I have a crush on, I obviously have trouble since I'm too shy to speak to them, and with other girls I have trouble because I'm just shy in general when it comes to talking and, like I said, I'm socially akward. And with guys, I have an equal amount of difficulty communicating because, as mentioned, my bad social skills and the fact that I'm too shy to speak with most people I haven't aready befriended before I developed social anxiety.