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Rayfist wrote:Most feminists I've seen either just block or disable, so it is fairly new to me.
Rayfist wrote:I don't mind it, but when it just goes to such extreme lengths, doesn't it get tiring at all? I'm fine with maybe one woman casually mentioning "Well okay, I do personally think more females should be added in games is fine", it's just the very forceful behavior that makes me look the other way, you see?
Yup, that's one of the reasons a lot block/disable. Tiredness. Understand that I have a number of issues with my mental and physical health which basically means I have next-to-no internet presence. I have taken steps to ensure that I don't recieve the barrage of bullshit that even my non-feminist friends get simply for being online. Also, we both know you sorta kinda!
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Jewish Candy wrote:I think you're a decent shimmyshoo, Rayfish.
Lol, I wish I knew if that was an insult or compliment.
A compliment my dear :o Though the Rayfish was a typo!

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I kind of just want to reach some form of agreement with Serza, even if we do have differing views.
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There are so many posts and I am fairly pooped so I can't even find things to say at this point. :confus:
Rayfist wrote:
Jewish Candy wrote:I don't see why videogames should be exempt from feminist critique when every other medium recieves it. If you don't think feminism should critique anything at all, well, we're going to have to disagree.
I don't mind it, but when it just goes to such extreme lengths, doesn't it get tiring at all? I'm fine with maybe one woman casually mentioning "Well okay, I do personally think more females should be added in games is fine", it's just the very forceful behavior that makes me look the other way, you see?
You let the extreme lengths get tired because you only focus on those aspects. Granted that is an assumption but given how often you focus on the extreme feminists i'd say it's a fair assumption to make. Our issue is that despite the fact you only don't believe in the extremists you seem to lump it together with non-extreme feminism anyway. Like how you asked us if the extreme side gets "tiring". Like you we don't pay any attention to that side and only focus on the feminism we believe in.

Also I wouldn't be surprised if the feminists that "block" you do so for the same reasons you "look away" from the extreme feminists.
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saerleiya wrote:(…)it ;).
Here's the real doldrum, you put your emoticon before your period. Wtf?
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Serza5 wrote:You let the extreme lengths get tired because you only focus on those aspects. Granted that is an assumption but given how often you focus on the extreme feminists i'd say it's a fair assumption to make. Our issue is that despite the fact you only don't believe in the extremists you seem to lump it together with non-extreme feminism anyway. Like how you asked us if the extreme side gets "tiring". Like you we don't pay any attention to that side and only focus on the feminism we believe in.

Also I wouldn't be surprised if the feminists that "block" you do so for the same reasons you "look away" from the extreme feminists.
Interesting point, no feminists have blocked me, I just take into account the ones the media displays. Anyways, this argument honestly got dragged into something I didn't intend for it to be... I'm going to write up a conclusion/semi-apology so we can move on.
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Rayfist wrote:I kind of just want to reach some form of agreement with Serza, even if we do have differing views.
I think she is going to get mad at us for giving her such a big amount of text walls to read. I don't know if she will have the patience to do so. Not against you Serza, pleaaaase, I still love you :'(!!
Adsolution wrote:Here's the real doldrum, you put your emoticon before your period. Wtf?
What again? Even that is a typo? F*** me, okay. Period.

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I will just say, I think this will have to end by tomorrow (though it looks like it's winding down!) - there are some people on the forum who I think need to use this topic for its original purpose. I'm sorry if I've dragged anything out. Also, it seems to have ended very decently, well done everyone! Particularly those who were there from the start.

Brad, I'm not going to be up for long so if you could - sorry - take your responses to me and put them in a PM? I can then respond/admit utter defeat without clogging this topic up any more. Sorry if that's a pain, I promise I'll read everything.
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To be fair, this is bothering all of us, so it is related to the topic.
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Rayfist wrote:I kind of just want to reach some form of agreement with Serza, even if we do have differing views.
I think the most important thing I want you to understand is that while some issues don't effect you in anyway in games there are some people that are bothered by issues in games and they have the right to say, in lengthy essays or otherwise, why they are bothered by this game without people thinking that this is an issue they're forcefully trying to push down peoples throats (Unless they are extremists, but they are, in fact, a minority, just a loud one).

If you can accept that then we can call that an agreement.
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I know we're winding down from the subject at hand, but I wanted to add in my thoughts before we conclude it.


Rayfist wrote:No matter what M rated game, anything with any type of sex, murder, etc, you should NEVER give access to someone whose insane, it's never the games fault, it's the person. This same stuff happens with movie's and other stuff.
Like books. Remember the guy who shot John Lennon? He was 'inspired' by the book Catcher in the Rye. In the end, it doesn't matter - if you're nuts, you're nuts. And people will associate the things you do with the things you like, as if those made you go crazy or whatever. It's insane in itself. I can't comprehend any work of man that wasn't direct hellspawn that could literally turn sane people into mental patients. I can't comprehend why others must think that that can happen. I assume people just don't think straight when they're emotional, and they're, of course, incredibly emotional after a tragedy has occured.
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Rayfist wrote: Saints Row III and Postal 2
2 whole games, incredible.
Well, if you want more, take the three games that comprise the Fable series. And I'm sure there are more. I do not know any more, solely because I don't pay that much attention to it in games.


Seriously, guys and gals alike - I don't see why everyone's so bothered by things the game devs most likely didn't even think of. Consider this: you're a team of devs, for some reason or other mostly male. You make characters. You model them after people you know, say your colleagues. Yes, you're gonna have a pretty much full-male cast. Whatever, right? Apparently Ad came up with pretty much the same point:
Adsolution wrote:There just happen to be more male directors in the scene, and really, it would be far more likely for a male to have a better idea of how to write a male character than he would a female one, therefore he'd likely end up writing a male character - males and females are not the exact same.
Maybe there are people among them who think "Hey I'll put some women in this game too, that'll be fun." and then they get shat upon because those women weren't portrayed in a right light. Or maybe I'm wrong and Rockstar is sexist scum. Regardless, I agree - we must not let our influences be only bad when it comes to female characters. But at the same time, we're allowed to have women painted in a slightly negative light now and then, just like men are sometimes. That doesn't have to result in this drama we're going through now.

If I know anything about Rockstar, it's that they're into satirical comedy that's borderline offensive. It's what they enjoy making. Look at South Park: the women in South Park are retards, but so are the men. Why don't we all blow up about the characters in that TV show? How about the wife from American Dad! ? Is she sane? No. Does that matter? Absolutely not - neither is anyone else.
But there are favourable female characters too! Samus Aran, for example. Who the hell doesn't want to be an amazing hero girl in a powersuit? Ly is pretty sweet - after Rayman, she's my favourite character of the series, coming in a very close second (Rayman only taking first place because... well he's Rayman and he has floaty hand bits and he's got a cool scarferchiek like). Betilla's swell. Fiora from League of Legends is one of my favourite characters from that game, coming second after Veigar, who I originally compared a lot to Mr. Dark. In Fable, you can choose whether you're a man or a woman. Should that game be called upon its actions for what you as a player can do while playing a woman? Doesn't murdering an entire village paint women in a shady light if you're playing a female character? But what if you're playing a guy...?

Exactly. It doesn't matter.
Serza5 wrote:The problem is not even the fact we have more male protagonists but this idea of having a female protagonist- or just a strong female character in general is something that's treated as being so rare and daring that companies just opt for the "safer" male route.
Sadly, complete and undeniable truth.
Serza5 wrote:Best place to go for examples is any female gaming youtuber's comments and dare try and tell me you don't see anything along the lines of those sort of remarks or "oh you're so sexy and you like games, I wanna fuck you".
I have two comments to this: the first is that the YouTube comment section isn't a place that's a good example of anything but that it proves itself as the cesspool that it is. The second is that that's just the way guys think and talk. We like to shove grotesque opinions and thoughts out into the world because we either think it's funny, because we're rude shits or because that's genuinely our thoughts and we have no inhibition to think twice about what we do and do not post.
Adsolution wrote:I can't even keep up with this cavalcade of shit, there are new, 2000-word posts showing up every five seconds.
Do you want me to run out of quotes space in my signature? Because this is how you make me run out of space in my signature.


Listen, I feel you. I really do. Guys suck. There are a lot of assholes out there. Sexist cunts who should have their head stuck in a pile of fresh horse shit and forced to eat it until they become a bit more sane. But this is not the way. This war we're having for some reason will not make us equal. Treating each other as equals will make us equal. I cannot stress this enough: the more guys and gals alike keep pointing out why 'so and so trait about a female character is wrong', the more we're focussed on the differences between us when we wish to be unified as one. If we want to be more equal, we need to treat each other more equal. And yes, that means that more female protagonists need to show up, but forcing it in by drawing so much attention to it won't help. That will make devs go "Oh we need to put a girl hero in this or people will rage" instead of the intended "This hero's a girl because cool" or "because I want her to be".

We're different. It's true. We'll always be different, that's our biology. It's in our very nature to be divided into two separate groups. But we don't have to shut the other out. I accept you into mankind. Will you accept me into womankind?
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You know what? The hell with my response. All of y'all seem fed with arguing, so I see no point with dragging this on. I have my views on this matter but I don't think it's worth my time cramming my beliefs here. I'll stick with my views, you guys stick with yours. I'm taking the lazy way out and not even gonna bat an eye.

@JewishCandy: While I appreciate your offer on continuing the subject through PMs, I rather just let this go. You seem like a polite and fun individual and I just have intention with discussing this anymore.

All in all, I have my views, you have your views. I have a love/hate relationship with discussions. I love to discuss and argue on subjects. I hate it when they're too long and knowing the idiot I am, I'm bound to mess up and make a fool out of myself. I know I'm gonna get some flak outta this, but fuck it.
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Shrooblord wrote:Fiora from League of Legends is one of my favourite characters from that game, coming second after Veigar, who I originally compared a lot to Mr. Dark.
My own favourite is a scarecrow. I don't tihnk it had a gender. Deal with it :P. (screw you Ad').
Shrooblord wrote:Will you accept me into womankind?
Tell me where you found the device!
Bradandez wrote:I know I'm gonna get some flak outta this, but fuck it.
Lazy now, huh? ;)
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Shrooblord wrote:
Adsolution wrote:I can't even keep up with this cavalcade of shit, there are new, 2000-word posts showing up every five seconds.
Do you want me to run out of quotes space in my signature? Because this is how you make me run out of space in my signature.other out.

I accept you into mankind. Will you accept me into womankind?
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Shrooblord wrote:Will you accept me into womankind?
Tell me where you found the device!
And the cycle begins!
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Did I accidentally quote something I don't know?
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Alright here's my conclusion so me and Serz can end this (and Jewish Candy I guess), and basically my thoughts on this:

The conversation did start with the petition for GTA V, that ultimately, did get me incredibly upset to see that they succeeded in doing this, no matter what is portrayed in GTA, actually convincing the place to do that is just outright bullying. That is how it started, I brang up Anita with a jewish interpretation picture of her being greedy. As you can tell, with her recent actions, my hatred towards here have been lead to massive levels, the message she tried to convey was bad and not exactly how feminism should be viewed. I think people need to stop going all out and calling GTA V sexist to such an extent, sure it's not being portrayed positively, but people like those do exist. Now... I only got upset when you accused GTA V of having "blatant sexism", that's where the ball dropped for me. You asked why were so pissy about it, and I think it's a bit understandable, you see, I was only mad at these people who got the game off store shelves but I think that further evolved into a bigger portion, I was mad at all feminazis at this point since they were part of it, and ultimately that voice within the crowd was the most uproared voice of them all. This is why I often differentiate feminazis from feminists.

I guess I kept constantly bringing up Anita because for a majority of people as of recently people link directly to her when they hear feminism in games, look, I don't support death threats, ever, but whenever I see an article brung up and it has "poor girl being harassed" with her face on it, not telling the whole story of what REALLY happened, it bothers the shit out of me. And thus my anger for her began. So to admit, yes I did bring up Anita a little too much when really I only intended it to be once or twice. I just think what she's doing is outright crazy, and I've seen people support her claims, which saddens me. I just wanted to get that out of the way of what I was originally mad about.

However I guess I dragged the conversation into something else with the load uproar of the feminazis, because this isn't the way to do change. I brought that into the conversation which I guess was just a whole different topic on its own.

So I do think you brought a few valid points to the table Serz, the biggest problem I initially had was just the majority of feminazis who are really hurting the image of gamers, and you aren't that, I see that now.

However I do think feminists (the normal ones, lol) going such lengths to say GTA is blatant sexism and signing that petition should really be ashamed. You can be mad at it, yes, but now you're just outright ruining gaming for others (the ones who had it pulled from there store shelves), it's THIS kind of movement which I refer to which is completely unnecessary.

However I'm just speaking towards someone else, not you or Jewish Candy, anyways I pretty much dragged the argument into something else. I guess what ultimately happened is I viewed you as being no different from these other feminazis, and the problem began there. I don't disagree with your movement, but I do disagree if you actually think that petition was a good idea.

Personally I don't think constantly complaining about the portrayal will change Rockstar's mind about it, I get that's what you're trying to do, but I really don't think it will work, especially since this has been a massive topic lately, yet no game devs have took this into account... because they hardly even think of it.

I think the GTA V complaint was really unnecessary, I get GTA V allows you to kill prostitutes, but remember it's trying to portray an open world city, the option to kill them is well... optional.

I'm all for equality and I won't dismay anyone's opinion, my biggest gripe here is that people demanding change to game devs that truly work hard and some already live pretty stressful lives. I don't mind more woman protagonists, I don't mind men protagonists, I really think what it always boils down to is a likeable protagonist. Could there be more women? Of course there could, but I think the lengths people are going to really spread this message is only kind of 'scaring' off the devs in the end. Just to further differentiate a feminist and feminazi take a look at this:
http://www.latimes.com/opinion/op-ed/la ... olumn.html

A man who landed on the moon was ultimately shunned by a man for the shirt he was wearing (that a female friend made him), just to further prove my stance, these are the type of femi"nazis" I can't stand, who just have no respect or dignity.

I think wanting more female protagonists is perfectly fine, no problem with it at all, I just think the protesting is going a little too far. So ultimately, yes, I do agree with wanting to have more females is perfectly fine.

I think it's perfectly fine to not be happy about it but to view it as a 'major issue' is kind of crossing into something not good.

This was just my stance, or kind of a conclusion, if you do happen to disagree with anything let me know, and I do apoligise for my somewhat dickish behavior earlier.

It ends with this: I was viewing Serz the wrong way and somewhat misinterpreting her I guess.
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As far as I'm concerned, the core of the argument is between you and Serz. Imma officially say I'm out.

@Brad: Not lazy at all, it's very wise (for the time being). And don't worry about not continuing, I'd prefer that really :lol: I just didn't want you to feel like you were being shut up.
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You were part of it too, I'm not trying to argue rather reach a somewhat mutual agreement. If you really don't care I fear nothing will be solved.

I'm moreso just telling my original stance so people don't get the wrong impression of me. I really don't want to be widely hated which is why I'm trying to further explain my stance.
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I was about to add something but then I read it a bit further and found I had no reason to.

So i'll accept that conclusion with no further discussion.
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If you really want to question something you shouldn't be afraid, I do want to explain our reasonings so we can reach somewhat of an agreement.

But that's fine if you understand.
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Aw crap SUMMON ME BACK WHY DON'T YA :lol:

Rayfist, I appreciate you spelling out your position. I am very sleepy, so I shall happily agree to end here.

As I said, you're a fine shimmyshoo and I stand by that. I don't hate you and I don't think anyone here does.
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